I went to wikipedia, to get my own answers. I don't need someone with a phd to tell me that I've got something wrong with me. But lets face it, if you or I had gone into a physicians office or a psychiatrist, they'd give us pills or tell us to go out and enjoy our lives. Both great forms of advice but, drugs only numb the pain while trying to have fun (for me) just ends up blowing up in my face and i recluse myself from society.
My sibling has several cuts on her arms. Reason was abuse, mental; possibly sexual too. A downward spiral. Here i am trying to make sense of it all and se if i can find a solution for myself and my family. Yet here i am, lost and confused like the rest of us
I feel a little weird about calling it a fetish, but regardless...
I don't know what you should do. When i found out from my sibling it was already too late, best i could do then and now is say don't do it again.
I want to say that you like being there to pick up the pieces, perhaps this is why you go out with or desire women who have some kind of mental anguish, practice self mutilation.
What happened to the women you used to date? People with unstable mentality isn't the kind of thing that turns me on but I'm starting to realize myself that I'm not all there and would prefer someone whom i can relate with back and forth.
I do try to help them. One of them was even suicidal. They tell me their problems and I'm jut there to listen and hug them when they need it. I'm thinking maybe they make me feel important and I crave that. Or maybe it's just when girls talk to me seriously like they could trust me is what I crave.
Is it normal to like girls who cut themselves?
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I went to wikipedia, to get my own answers. I don't need someone with a phd to tell me that I've got something wrong with me. But lets face it, if you or I had gone into a physicians office or a psychiatrist, they'd give us pills or tell us to go out and enjoy our lives. Both great forms of advice but, drugs only numb the pain while trying to have fun (for me) just ends up blowing up in my face and i recluse myself from society.
My sibling has several cuts on her arms. Reason was abuse, mental; possibly sexual too. A downward spiral. Here i am trying to make sense of it all and se if i can find a solution for myself and my family. Yet here i am, lost and confused like the rest of us
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You took the words right out of my mouth. What should I do about this possible fetish?
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I feel a little weird about calling it a fetish, but regardless...
I don't know what you should do. When i found out from my sibling it was already too late, best i could do then and now is say don't do it again.
I want to say that you like being there to pick up the pieces, perhaps this is why you go out with or desire women who have some kind of mental anguish, practice self mutilation.
What happened to the women you used to date? People with unstable mentality isn't the kind of thing that turns me on but I'm starting to realize myself that I'm not all there and would prefer someone whom i can relate with back and forth.
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I do try to help them. One of them was even suicidal. They tell me their problems and I'm jut there to listen and hug them when they need it. I'm thinking maybe they make me feel important and I crave that. Or maybe it's just when girls talk to me seriously like they could trust me is what I crave.
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Broke up with them afterwards? Did you cure them, or something?