Is it normal to like gay porn but not be attracted to men

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I have recently watched gay porn and sort of liked it I never masturbated to it but was turned on by it, however I love watching pretty much all straight porn. I don't think I am gay because I could not see myself living a life with a man, I want kids my own kids and I love women. Another thing is that I am a virgin so what the F**k is wrong with me.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Sexuality is a spectrum rather than a tickbox. Also, I think sexuality has as much to do with affection as attraction. If you want to be affectionate, romantic, or to live with or marry a man then, yes, I'd say you were probably veering towards homosexuality.

    But even if you were, what would be the problem? It's like the colour of your eyes or your taste in ice cream flavours. There isn't a right or wrong. Best advice I can give you is not to label yourself (or others), don't try to apply values of right/wrong to any labels, and just to do what you want sexually as long as everyone else involved consents to it.

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  • mac&cheese
    13 years ago

    your physical sexual response to gay porn means you are attracted to men. point blank.

    yeah you could never see yourself with a man and yadda yadda, but that's just your societal upbringing weighing on your urges.

    The fact that you're a virgin is kind of a deal sealer. You haven't had the total go-get-em urge to have sex with women. ever. and now you find you are sexually excited by men. sounds to me like you are, in a lot of ways, gay and maybe just have never considered it being an option.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      so it doesnt make a difference if i've been masturbating to straight porn for years and only just started to watch gay porn, that automatically makes me gay even though i feel the same way about both

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      • mac&cheese
        13 years ago

        I said that you are attracted to men. On the kinsey scale you could be anywhere between a 2-4. There's no doubt in my mind that you are at the very least "bisexual". A completely and totally straight guy wouldn't have been turned on by gay porn. There would have to be that female element in the video for it to be exiting to him. In straight porn there's still guys engaging in the sex so someone who is bisexual or even completely gay probably would be turned on (albeit probably mildly) by straight porn.

        I think the main hurdle I want to help you over is accepting that you are attracted to men and are not 100% straight

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  • lvcumluver
    13 years ago

    I love gay and tranny porn!

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Ehh I dunno. I'm a chick and gay male porn doesn't really do it for me.

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  • korn3654
    13 years ago

    Your fag and in denial.

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