Is it normal to like feeling degraded during sex?
I'm a 19 year old female and during sex, I enjoy a lot of the time to feel dominated and degraded during sex. Not all the time though. I enjoy dominating positions and being held down, almost like mocking rape. My ex used to spit on me and we used to play "rape" when we would wrestle and I would fight against him until he tore my clothes off, held me down and started pounding me. We even used to slap each other sometimes (not with the intention of hurting one another). I only like feeling like this during sex and otherwise would never stand for being treated badly by anyone. Is this normal?