Is it normal to like bdsm?

Hey everyone, my girlfriend is worried that what she's into isn't normal. She likes to be tied up, hurt (e.g. slapped etc) and dominated. I plan to show her this if you say its normal, so she feels better about it.

Is It Normal?
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  • Tie her spread eagled to the bedposts, take a blindfold and place it over her eyes. take a pool ball and place it in her mouth, then fasten a gag over it.

    Take a six mens Tie`s in your right hand and whip her over her breasts, one at a time until they are nicely inflamed and red. Then use the same Tie`s and softly start flicking her pussy with them, picking up the intensity of the blows as you increase. Once her pussy is nice and puffy, shove your hard boner straight into her without any lube and fuck the shit of her!

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    • A pool ball? A POOL BALL? I don't think so ....

      Blindfolds are good though but what's with the lack of lube? If he's doing it right she won't need lubrication except if they get into anal sex

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      • In your country you refer to it as a Billiards ball?

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      • Right... Unless if she isn't enjoying it much... I think that's what he's getting at but that would be rape..

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  • Kinky fun is called "kinky fun" for a reason.... Just try not to hurt her badly or it'll be pretty damn unpleasant. Remember, keep things safe sane and consensual. But nevertheless I'd say normal.

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  • I found that even dominant women behind closed doors when your one on one may ask to be dominated and disciplined but only for sexual satisfaction. My ex-wife/dominatrix sometimes enjoyed being whipped with our spaghetti whip after giving me a hard whipping. It was like getting a massage from a dozen foot-long leather laces snapping over and over again on her bare flesh. She would get so turned on she would cry out for me to screw her from behind afterwards.
    I had a dominatrix friend give me a caning at the beach which was quite intense and afterwords she had me give her a caning as well but a lot lighter which was a sexual turn on for her. She really gave me a beating that day and she told me it made her feel better to get caned herself showing that I had forgiven her.
    One night I asked my wife if she’d like to get spanked and to my surprise she told me yes. I wanted to give her an over the knee spanking while at the same time masturbating her with my other finger. So slapping her bare butt with my right hand I fingered her pussy with my left, spanking her until she had an orgasm. It actually surprised her but she never asked for it again possibly out of embarrassment.
    Another lady friend loved talking about how her mother gave her hard bare bottom spankings with a hairbrush. She asked me to make her a wooden paddle with nylon spikes that was the worst hair raising device I have are made for someone. It was an Oak wood stick, 18 inches long, 2 inches wide, half inch thick with nine rounded off spikes. It made the hair on the back of my neck stick up whenever she wanted to spank my ass. She always saved her stick for last and truthfully I always begged her not to do it.

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  • Lucky, working on my girlfriend to do that.

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  • So normal, I love it when my boyfriend ties me up.

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  • Show her fetlife.com she will quickly feel extremely normal lol

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  • This is normal and can be very erotic. If it turns you on, go for it!

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  • This is normal and common, but very important to keep up the clear specific communication before, during and after and to have a safe word.

    Have fun and play safe!

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  • A lot of women like to be tied and used. My wife loves it and tells me she gets great feelings when having sex this way and has recently introduced other guys into her sex life with my consent to this form of sex. Seeing her tied so she can't move or resist and then being used by other men can be a great turn on for the partner.

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