Is it normal to like another girl?

I'm not a lesbian, because I still like boys, too. But there's someone I feel more intensely toward, and she's the same sex. We both happen to have a lot in common, scars on our wrists, other secrets... I guess I sound bad now already, don't I? We also happen to be friends. I hate to hide things from her, and I hate myself for not telling her anything. But one day another friend and I found something in a notebook she wrote, about how she wasn't sure whether she liked girls or guys, and I couldn't help wondering-could she still feel the same way? Now that school's out, and she's on vacation for the whole summer, I feel so heartbroken without her by my side. I thionk I'd be easier to tell her then her be so unknowing of what she does to me, but I think I'd ruin everything, and make it worse. Help me, it it normal to like your best friend?

Is It Normal?
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  • yeah ur bi... but are you sure you really want to have a relationship with another woman?
    lots of girls are jsut sexualy attractied to other women. but it doesnt mean they want to be girlfriend and girlfriend.
    think about it, do you really want her because you love her? or do you want her now because she's gone, and she was your best friend?

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  • It's perfectly normal. Before i accepted my bisexuality i used to have weird feelings to some of my friends, like some kind of sexual attraction. About a year ago i had an actual sexual experience with another girl and bealive me, pussy rocks.

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  • You are bi-sexual

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  • no...i kinda felt like this before school was out, and y'know whats weird? a couple weeks ago she messaged me and told ME that SHE was bi, or at least bi-curious

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  • Your bi

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  • well yeah.... when i saw you said scars on wrist and stuff like that i thought of how many people i have seen who like their best friend of the same sex its normal so dont worry.... i dont believe in liking other people from the same sex but you should love her and wait till you know what she thinks about it...

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