Is it normal to like a guy whose 15 years older than me?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    it depends on where you live.

    if you're below the age of consent then your lover is a criminal. and very likely taking advantage of you. cos hey what kid your age wouldn't be swept off his or her feet by all the attention and sexuality an adult can bring?

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    • VentingEquinox
      11 years ago | pl

      It's legal in New York, for a 17 year old.
      But my friends still consider it "rape"
      and I do agree that adults can often manipulate a childs mind with the "attention and sexuality" that they bring

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        if you're the OP then it's legal.
        not necessarily recommended though considering the fact that the adult can manipulate you.

        i'd suggest thinking hard about what you really want. even considering taking a 6 month 'break' to decide this.

        cos if this is really true love then the adult won't begrudge you time to consider

        and if the adult seems likely to wander off if you ask for this time... then that adult wasn't looking to stay long anyway

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