Is it normal to like a guy who you have broken up with twice?

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Ok, so there is this guy who is really nice, sweet, and smart. He always makes me laugh when im sad. I have gone out with him twice and both times i broke up with him because he never talked to me. Well i have fallen again and i like him again. I dont know what to do because apparently after i broke up with him he still liked me. which made it worse because after i broke up with him i still liked him. Then i stopped and like i said before i have fallen again. I dont think he will ever like me again but i just want to know if its normal that i do like him, and do you think i have one more chance?

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  • solidman
    11 years ago | pl

    Lol I think I know how he feels. I'm in he's shoes right now but tell your self this do you know why he doesn't talk to you maybe its because you favor someone else or maybe its just because your very diffrent from eachother or maybe its because your friends just simply hates him or maybe your unconsiously hurting him without even knowing idk there could be multyple reason just find out what it is and try to work things out.

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  • lifeisfree
    13 years ago | pl

    Make up your fucking mind.

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  • mtnw
    13 years ago | pl

    this would make a great movie, like, say, gone with the wind!

    seriously, why are you so wishy washy about this guy. don't you know want you want in a boyfriend?

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    • imjustme
      13 years ago | pl

      he is everything i want in a boyfriend. if only he would talk to me

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      • mtnw
        13 years ago | pl

        good luck getting a "non talker to talk". it's a common complaint about men.

        if he's what you want in a boyfriend, then maybe you can learn to be with a quiet man. that's all part of loving a person, accepting things about them that you see as a fault.

        men don't talk and think like women, they usually have less to say and are more to the point.

        i hope by now you realize that breaking up with him didn't get you the results you were hoping for, which would be that he talked more.

        you will never know if you don't try and contact him. you know the comment about "gone with the wind" that i made above? have you ever watched that? your story reminds me of rhett and scarlette. both of them, always in love, but never tolerating each other.

        give him a call. tell him you are sorry about the breakup and that you'd like another chance. the worst that can happen is the same as if you don't try...........you two won't be together. good luck, i hope it works out for you:)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Maybe ask why there is no better prospect & you feel safe with this none starter?

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  • IKnowNothing
    13 years ago | pl

    Before you jump into the same old habits. remember how he made you fell when he did not talk to you and you broke up with him. Do you think he has changed? Nobody can relly tell you what to do. but do you want your heart broken by the same guy for a third time.

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    • imjustme
      13 years ago | pl

      wow thanks i never saw it from that point of view. by the way i dont think you know nothing

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