Is it normal to like 2 very different guys?

So basically I like these two different guys but they are very different from each other. I'm very picky so it's unusual for me to find a guy that fits my criteria, let alone two at the same time. They're both sweet and great but one's an outgoing and "guys guy" but with a soft heart while the other is more reserved but intellectual and sweet. Some days I'll find myself thinking about one more than another but it always switches back and forth. I've never liked two guys at once. I think they both potentially like me back. Also, to the guys of IIN, how do you tell if a guy likes you depending on their personality type? The more outgoing guy seems different around me than with other people ( like he seems a bit restrained and almost nervous when talking) - is that a sign? When he had a gf(now his ex), he talked to me once about how they'd have to keep up a long distance relationship as she was moving. Did he do this to stir up my feelings for him? I didn't think guys talked to female friends about gf stuff. Also, I'm pretty sure that the reserved guy's mom tells him I'm a catch because she always tells my mom how great and gorgeous I am after complaining about his ex gf haha. It's hard to tell if he likes me though because he's always calm, cool and collected. I'm just confused with why I'm finding myself liking two very different guys. I'd love some insight! Thanks (:

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  • if one of the boys are a player, he's a no go.. Pick the one you feel will treat you right.

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  • I'll suck the cock of whatever boyfriend you drop.

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  • I like 3 guys right now. I'm dating one of them, and the other two are school girl crushes. They all have things in common. I have my type. Ik they like me but id like to keep the two I'm crushing on good friends :3 theyre fun, but I like them all in different ways and amounts. Two of them I'd kiss and the one I would kiss but I'm not dating has asked me out before. I've had a dream about making out with him and I've never dreamed about my bf. I have dreamed about his dogs though... I think it's pretty normal

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  • im just the same with 2 girls at my school!

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  • They both are great and would treat me really well...

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  • I'm just asking how do you tell if a guy likes you depending on his personality type? These two guys are so different, I don't know how to tell if either of them like me. I'm not asking which person I should choose or why I have to pick one.

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    • You stop being a little girl and ask one of them if they like you. Or just kiss one of em and see what happens. Stop pussyfooting around and take the plunge. Pick one and do it. But I'd pick the intellectual one first because if he rejects you there's less of a chance the 'mans man' will be but hurt about being second choice.

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  • Alright let me get this straight, are you asking us to choose for you or to tell you why you can't choose??
    What I can tell you is that you think you're very picky but in fact you have no idea what you really want in a guy, so just follow your heart and forget about being picky or any checklist you have.

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