Is it normal to LIE ALOT ?

Ok fine,you'll lie,he'll come up with plans,I will rationalize to find justifications and alibis. Have we got a deal?
Anyway I think you are only saying that you are a patological liar because you do not want to appear too honest and risk somebody trying to take advantage of you. I think it is a defense mechanism.A social defensive strategy.:-)
There is a truth in every lie and a lie in every truth.
That is why some people go completely nuts.Cause after a while,they cannot really tell which is which no more.
Did I really mean it? Or I was just ling? I'll just,keep for myself the chance to decide at the last time. If the guy gives me every reason to believe he is swallowing the lie,then I'll just keep playing on it,but if he looks suspicious,then I will reveal the truth or tell another lie to test him with somemore. Repeat this as many times as needed before letting the truth spill out,if possible until you forget it too.
And start believing your own bullshit.