Is it normal to lie about your virginity to someone?

Hey dont lie just tell him the truth if its not meant to be then its not meant to be and there is a lot of fish in the sea aka if he does leaving u for lieing their is someone out there for u ok?

You are crazy about him but... is he crazy about you? In all honesty I don't think it will change anything.

If he doesn't love you already, then having a membrane across your vaginal canal won't change how he feels.

I agree just go with your heart.... me personally would rather have a virgin.... I think it shows that your loyal and trustworthy. :) BTW being a size to is over rated...

I just wanted to say that it doesn't matter what size you are, most guys don't like the super skinny look anyways! I'm sure you are beautiful!!

If you want him to know you lied then tell him. If you want to date him then ask him. Maybe don't tell him one straight after the other. And don't worry about you weight (apart from possibly health reasons), just put on something nice, flirt a little, and ask him out.

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Older guys would do anything to have sex with a hot virgin teenage girl. You should have told him the truth, he would have loved it.

Why don't you try reading the million other questions that ask "Is it normal to be a virgin at 20" and you will have a very clear answer. This question has been asked 1000 times!

It is normal. However, it's quite silly and very pointless.

Your size doesn't matter at all. :) I'm 18 years old, and a size 16. I thought I was quite big, and wasn't overly keen on my body, until I met my boyfriend. He's honestly very very slim, and I love his body size and he loves mine. :)

Im 17 and i lied about it, now i regret it but i dont really know any of the people i lied to anymore so it doesnt matter for me... but for you just getting it of your conscience might be a good thing if you feel bad about it. If you think there is a chance between you, tell him and tell him how you feel. If you think/know there is no chance between you, then i guess there is no point in telling him unless it is too get it of your conscience. I guess the hard part is that maybe you dont know whether he likes you back or not.. anyway dont let the fact that you are size 20 stop you doing anything... if someone loves you they love you no matter what size you are :) Also loadsa people lie about losing there V at some point so dont worry

You should tell him the truth and be honest with him. He might actually prefer that you are a virgin, and it is definitely not a shameful thing that you are one, I am a virgin as well. Tell him the truth about the lie and your feelings for him and hopefully all goes well and works out. If not, there are many people in the world and one of them is bound to love you for you.

Just do him, fuck him. That way you don't have to lie anymore.

Just go for it. If you don't you'll likely regret it the rest of your life

Thanks for all the positive comments guys!! It really gives me the confidence I needed...

Just prepared for the rejection IF it does happen. I would love to say that he wants you back, but I don't know the situation very well. I really hope it does all go well for you! If he's a good guy, size won't matter, if he says it does, then he's not worth your time. I don't think the virgin thing would matter either, he'd probably like it. I don't think that you should tell him you love him straight away, he may freak out as that's coming on pretty strong. But i think it's definitely safe to admit you have feelings for him. I hope this is helpful!

I think that you should explain to him that you love him. But do it in a casual way and when you feel the time is right. Who knows, maybe he's liked you all these years. When, and if, the topic of virginity comes up, that's when you should tell him that you lied. Have confidence in what you do and don't let the shape of your body hinder you from attaining love.

There is no need to lie about it.

Fear is the enemy. Say the truth and never turn back.

If you care for him, speak the truth!

If you are already friends you can mention as a joke that you lied when you were young about not being a virgin - but wait until the conversation comes up. Don't make it seem as if you're throwing yourself at him, or he might just use you and then dump you.

My Grandfather was so great that he didn't marry in his Entire Life?