First of all, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. It's not something to be shameful of. I wish I'd waited until I was older and I'm sure a lot of other people here do to. Take pride in your virginity. It's not a bad thing.
Now, here's a dirty little secret of people your age: almost everyone HAS NOT done it. They feel the exact same pressure you do about being a virgin and THEY LIE about it too. Which makes it tougher on people like you who then feel compelled to lie about it.
Be brave. You could actually help someone who's facing your situation by simply being honest. Who knows how many other virgins are suffering in silence, ashamed of who they are because they feel like a freak for not having sex. Set a trend, be proud of who you are. There's nothing wrong with you.
Is it normal to lie about being a virgin?
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First of all, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. It's not something to be shameful of. I wish I'd waited until I was older and I'm sure a lot of other people here do to. Take pride in your virginity. It's not a bad thing.
Now, here's a dirty little secret of people your age: almost everyone HAS NOT done it. They feel the exact same pressure you do about being a virgin and THEY LIE about it too. Which makes it tougher on people like you who then feel compelled to lie about it.
Be brave. You could actually help someone who's facing your situation by simply being honest. Who knows how many other virgins are suffering in silence, ashamed of who they are because they feel like a freak for not having sex. Set a trend, be proud of who you are. There's nothing wrong with you.
Don't lie.