My ex and I were swingers and had a couple that were regular playmates of ours. The female of that couple wanted to do the same thing and he was hesitant, like you. He eventually let her play by herself. Within a year she left him and took the kids, half the money and he pays her alimony. Think hard about this. Just your hesitation makes me think you should say no. If you decide to let her, wait until she ok's someone to be your playmate. Even then, I think this is a really slippery slope to trouble.
Is it normal to let your wife have a regular lover?
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My ex and I were swingers and had a couple that were regular playmates of ours. The female of that couple wanted to do the same thing and he was hesitant, like you. He eventually let her play by herself. Within a year she left him and took the kids, half the money and he pays her alimony. Think hard about this. Just your hesitation makes me think you should say no. If you decide to let her, wait until she ok's someone to be your playmate. Even then, I think this is a really slippery slope to trouble.