I lost my virginity to someone I was in love with at the time. Then we fell out of love and I realized he was kind of a jerk. Now I feel kind of ashamed that I made so much more of it than it really was...I thought it was special and it wasn't. I wish I had lost it to someone I didn't care about. On the bright side, I now have a funny story about how serious it all seemed. It's really not a big deal. Live in the moment, if you want to fuck someone, then do it - you never know if someone "special" is going to turn out a dick in the end. And it won't make it any less special when you find someone you DO care about - no matter how many come before, sex with someone you care about is always intimate.
Is it normal to let your first time be with someone you don't love?
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I lost my virginity to someone I was in love with at the time. Then we fell out of love and I realized he was kind of a jerk. Now I feel kind of ashamed that I made so much more of it than it really was...I thought it was special and it wasn't. I wish I had lost it to someone I didn't care about. On the bright side, I now have a funny story about how serious it all seemed. It's really not a big deal. Live in the moment, if you want to fuck someone, then do it - you never know if someone "special" is going to turn out a dick in the end. And it won't make it any less special when you find someone you DO care about - no matter how many come before, sex with someone you care about is always intimate.