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I've been married for seven years and I love my wife and she loves me. She is just far more attractive and successful in our line of work. She occasionally travels and likes to sleep around while out of town. Is it normal that I'm ok with her cheating as long as she's honest with me?
Having an open marriage is perfectly acceptable, I do, but it's not really normal. It's ok to live according to what makes you happy tho 😊😊
No, it's not ok. It leads to a society of weak people that can't trust each other, 4 times more likely to suffer from mental illness and to commit suicide by recent statistics, unable to develop and to survive and being replaced by other nations. Don't you think that the rules ancient people made forbidding adultery with or without consent had a reason? Maybe because they did it a lot in the history and this it had the same long-term results over and over again - division, instability and collapse?
Ancient people also believed the sun was driven through the sky in a chariot each day.
Yes, but that doesn't mean they were wrong all the time. And also doesn't disprove the point that all this sexual degeneracy leads to disaster. And also disrespects all the culture (arts and sciences) and the heritage and our existence itself they provided us with. And also contains a fallacy that indicates some critical points in there you need to shun by bringing some other unrelated stuff in the discussion.
Polyamouras behavior has been around since the beginning of time. It is not degenerate, it's beautiful. It also doesn't lead to disaster as you claim. Lying and cheating because you are attempting to conform to stupid societal expectations does.
"stupid societal expectations"
"science is bullshit"
"jealous men are assholes"
"retarded liberal agenda"
"if you work so much you are not good because I work less and I go to college"...
criticising everyone and everything whenever and however you want to...
...and then "life makes no sense, it's so pointless". Wonderful. The perfect recipee for the modern life.
No only the really god awful ugly wives should be allowed cheating privileges. Or the 400 pounders with badonkadonk asses. Or the ones with more than one facial mole . why do you think pretty ones get a free pass? you a ugly husband ?
Where does everyone get there normal or not normal from. Everyone in Society has different ideas was raised differently no matter if you went to the same church or school as your best friend and your best friend was raised differently than you you were raised differently than them. Normal is so far out there and so far-fetched for anybody to say what's not normal for you it may be normal for other people that might be normal. Maybe the people that say it's not normal are the one that aren't normal. Maybe the ones that say it normal are normal. I can tell u all this I am normal and I am not normal and that my friends is very normal. Sorry but sometime everyone is a little crazy.
There is NOTHING more sensual than seeing or or KNOWING your wife is having sex on the side as long as she comes home with the passion and tells you all about it. Then the two of you can celebrate the excitement together.
"She's more successful in our line of work."
Are you guys porn stars? If so then it's perfectly normal. And I'd like to see some of your and your wife's works. :)
I guess if you are okay with it, and she is honest with you about it with you, I see no problem.
It's not conventional, so it's not "normal" in that sense.
But then some people might find it not very "normal" that you two are still together and in love with each other more than seven years down the line from when you met.
It's your marriage, and you and your wife should feel free to make whatever rules work for you, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
Had to accept this when we first started dating 25 years ago
She has sex with other men a couple of times a week in the open. Mostly fellatio but sometimes intercourse.
I think as long as you know what she is doing while traveling it is ok and she needs to take care of your sexual needs as well. Beyond that, let her play otherwise she will do it without our telling you. I know because I used to do it before coming clean to my wife.
Let it happen or she is going to take cock regardless if it's yours or somebody else but send her my way
No two marriages are the same. If you are okay with it than that's your marriage. No one else should be able to judge it for you. By the sounds of it it sounds like you aren't completely comfortable with it or you wouldn't have asked the question. Only you get to make that decision not the internet if you are happy with things the way they are than that's all that matters
It's an open marriage thing huh??
but still i don't think it's normal.
Do you have kids??
Is she ok with you sleeping around as well? You shouldn't have one rule for her and different rules for you. If you both sleep around and are happy with that then I guess it's ok although not exactly normal. But I do wonder why you even bothered getting married in the first place!