Im not sure how to help with opening up. I have tried helping him by being patient when I talk to him but I dont think he appreciates it. However, he has pointed out how I am good at holding conversations while he acknowledges hes not the best person to have talks with. But I dont think he realizes Im also being patient with him because Im helping him to open up.
I mean thats the best thing that can happen, is if he just accepts me for who I am without trying to be better for him. But not sure if that can happen.
IIN to legitimately feel not good enough for someone?
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Im not sure how to help with opening up. I have tried helping him by being patient when I talk to him but I dont think he appreciates it. However, he has pointed out how I am good at holding conversations while he acknowledges hes not the best person to have talks with. But I dont think he realizes Im also being patient with him because Im helping him to open up.
I mean thats the best thing that can happen, is if he just accepts me for who I am without trying to be better for him. But not sure if that can happen.