I think it's normal to feel that way. No one is perfect. Everyone has insecurities, but for men we don't like to show weakness or to look vulnerable because we believe that part of being a man is being confident and in control. It seems like he has trouble opening up. Maybe this is something you can help him with?
"Unfortunately, he doesn't learn much with me. I literally dont have anything to offer to him and it sucks." I don't believe that's true because everybody is unique in their own way and has their own insight on things, so you can learn something from just about anybody. It's not right if he looks down on you, but rather he should be willing to accept you for who you are.
Im not sure how to help with opening up. I have tried helping him by being patient when I talk to him but I dont think he appreciates it. However, he has pointed out how I am good at holding conversations while he acknowledges hes not the best person to have talks with. But I dont think he realizes Im also being patient with him because Im helping him to open up.
I mean thats the best thing that can happen, is if he just accepts me for who I am without trying to be better for him. But not sure if that can happen.
IIN to legitimately feel not good enough for someone?
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I think it's normal to feel that way. No one is perfect. Everyone has insecurities, but for men we don't like to show weakness or to look vulnerable because we believe that part of being a man is being confident and in control. It seems like he has trouble opening up. Maybe this is something you can help him with?
"Unfortunately, he doesn't learn much with me. I literally dont have anything to offer to him and it sucks." I don't believe that's true because everybody is unique in their own way and has their own insight on things, so you can learn something from just about anybody. It's not right if he looks down on you, but rather he should be willing to accept you for who you are.
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Im not sure how to help with opening up. I have tried helping him by being patient when I talk to him but I dont think he appreciates it. However, he has pointed out how I am good at holding conversations while he acknowledges hes not the best person to have talks with. But I dont think he realizes Im also being patient with him because Im helping him to open up.
I mean thats the best thing that can happen, is if he just accepts me for who I am without trying to be better for him. But not sure if that can happen.