Consider what qualities made you attracted to him in the first place. Aren't they the same ones causing you to be insecure now?
The last thing a high value man wants is a girl to 'teach' him anything. Be supportive, be feminine and be charming. If your presence has a positive effect on his life, he'll keep you.
And just to note, I think this relationship is a good one. Especially if you are able to stop comparing your strengths to his.
Yeah I have realized that I need to be okay with myself because thats who he fell for in the beginning. I think I just simply got intimidated by him the more we got to know each other and it consumed me to the point where I lacked confidence and he saw that. I feel like now that he sees my flaws, I can't go back and be confident anymore cause itll look fake so its like Im stuck.
Well like I said on my post, he does like to learn new things. Every time someone teaches him something new, he's so into it. I wish I can bring that to him but I don't know what I can bring to the table.
Thanks well I guess Ill just keep supporting him and if hes a good guy, he needs to appreciate me for it, not shed more light on my flaws.
IIN to legitimately feel not good enough for someone?
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Consider what qualities made you attracted to him in the first place. Aren't they the same ones causing you to be insecure now?
The last thing a high value man wants is a girl to 'teach' him anything. Be supportive, be feminine and be charming. If your presence has a positive effect on his life, he'll keep you.
And just to note, I think this relationship is a good one. Especially if you are able to stop comparing your strengths to his.
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Yeah I have realized that I need to be okay with myself because thats who he fell for in the beginning. I think I just simply got intimidated by him the more we got to know each other and it consumed me to the point where I lacked confidence and he saw that. I feel like now that he sees my flaws, I can't go back and be confident anymore cause itll look fake so its like Im stuck.
Well like I said on my post, he does like to learn new things. Every time someone teaches him something new, he's so into it. I wish I can bring that to him but I don't know what I can bring to the table.
Thanks well I guess Ill just keep supporting him and if hes a good guy, he needs to appreciate me for it, not shed more light on my flaws.