I felt the same way with my boyfriend. Before me, there was a really pretty and slim girl he used to get high with and have sex with constantly. This really bothered me. I was worried that he would be comparing us in his mind.. and other jealous feelings came to me. I wanted to break up with him. Not because he had someone before me but because I didn't think I was ready for a relationship because of my negative thinking. But I didn't break up with him and got past my insecurity by not prying into his past and thinking about his past sexual relationship. Anyway.. what I'm saying is that it's normal to feel insecure once in awhile about this kind of stuff. However, if it's taking over your life and thinking then you're not ready. You will only hurt her and get hurt yourself in the end.
Is it normal to leave her for this?
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I felt the same way with my boyfriend. Before me, there was a really pretty and slim girl he used to get high with and have sex with constantly. This really bothered me. I was worried that he would be comparing us in his mind.. and other jealous feelings came to me. I wanted to break up with him. Not because he had someone before me but because I didn't think I was ready for a relationship because of my negative thinking. But I didn't break up with him and got past my insecurity by not prying into his past and thinking about his past sexual relationship. Anyway.. what I'm saying is that it's normal to feel insecure once in awhile about this kind of stuff. However, if it's taking over your life and thinking then you're not ready. You will only hurt her and get hurt yourself in the end.