I know you want cheat her, and I can certainly understand your motivation under the circumstances, but don't do it. Go see a therapist instead, and maybe look into seeing an a divorce attorney. You can suggest that ya'll see a marriage counselor together, but unfortunately you can't force her to work on herself or the relationship. Just do your best to work on both yourself and the relationship. Do whatever you can to work on and improve yourself not so much for your wife, but for your own self.
I don't know how long ya'll have been having these problems, but it sounds to me like she's verbally and emotionally abusive as well as neglectful of you. Don't stoop to her level by doing something immoral or abusive, but do plan a way out of this bad relationship if you feel so inclined. Even if you want to stay with her it might be best for you to leave for the sake of your peace of mind and self esteem.
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I know you want cheat her, and I can certainly understand your motivation under the circumstances, but don't do it. Go see a therapist instead, and maybe look into seeing an a divorce attorney. You can suggest that ya'll see a marriage counselor together, but unfortunately you can't force her to work on herself or the relationship. Just do your best to work on both yourself and the relationship. Do whatever you can to work on and improve yourself not so much for your wife, but for your own self.
I don't know how long ya'll have been having these problems, but it sounds to me like she's verbally and emotionally abusive as well as neglectful of you. Don't stoop to her level by doing something immoral or abusive, but do plan a way out of this bad relationship if you feel so inclined. Even if you want to stay with her it might be best for you to leave for the sake of your peace of mind and self esteem.