I'm shocked that you weren't just your true self at the start of the relationship but you have to tell her. If you can't do it face to face, write it down and send it to her. If she can't accept the real you - she will really hate you when she finds out that she wasted so much time of her life with a fraud.
Thanks, we were introduced by friends, who were some of the others that I hide the other side of me from. So when we got into it she only knew one side of me and I didn't want to mess it up so I figured that I could hide it forever and things would just go wonderfully, which was very foolish of me. I really do hope I'm underestimating her.
Is it normal to lead a "double life" and hide it from my girlfriend?
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I'm shocked that you weren't just your true self at the start of the relationship but you have to tell her. If you can't do it face to face, write it down and send it to her. If she can't accept the real you - she will really hate you when she finds out that she wasted so much time of her life with a fraud.
I think you might be underestimating her though!
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Thanks, we were introduced by friends, who were some of the others that I hide the other side of me from. So when we got into it she only knew one side of me and I didn't want to mess it up so I figured that I could hide it forever and things would just go wonderfully, which was very foolish of me. I really do hope I'm underestimating her.