I would be nice if the two of you could start communicating again. Perhaps, you could find him on something like Facebook.
When I was much younger I had best friends or "BFFs". I met one while in kindergarten and we were friends for almost a decade. However, there were problems with her that for the longest time I was unable to see. Sometimes she would say disturbing or mean things. As we got older she became periodically violent, most noticeably on Sundays. The first time she hurt me was when church was over. My grandmother was talking to her fellow church goers and me and my friend were sitting in the pews. In a split second she had this look on her face and suddenly I found her chocking me. It hurt so much, I could barely speak much less breathe. I tried to ask her if she was joking or I would beg her to stop. Strangely enough no adults came over to help, they must not have heard me or saw us, I'd hate to believe that they did but did nothing to help. Eventually, she stopped but I felt very uneasy around her. She did it again in my own room a few Sundays later. Violence aside she also had a almost disturbing knowledge of sex. She used to call me up and tell me really sexual stories that sounded like XXX films. Later on, I realized that she was being abusive and took me for granted. I tried to voice my concerns but she and her friends barely listened. The friendship finally ended when I told my mother about something which caused her to call her mom up and a huge fight when down between them. Then my friend called me up and I got accused of all manner of things.
I had a male friend that I was friends with for years, but the relationship ended mainly due to my stupidity. I made fun of him and I feel so bad about it know. I passed up our great friendship to be friends with people who really weren't my and later ended up turning against me and bullying me. A part of me would like to mend things with him and if I every get the guts or the time I might actually call him up for a personal apology. However, he had some serious problems. He would hump, in front of the teachers, children. One was younger than the two of us and was horribly upset when he did it to him. I was upset because I felt like stopping him but I didn't. I might have tried to tell the teachers but they refused to listen to me as we had a falling out. The other boy was closer to our age, he humped him by riding on him like a horse while in front of the teachers who once again did nothing. The only thing they did was tell me off for trying to alert them. My friend might have been sexually abused, I know he had a friend that was a lot older than him and they would spend a lot of time playing video games together but I really don't know the whole story there. He also once told me that he had hurt his cats. O_O I know he was therapy but there's no way of knowing if he ever got better.
Is it normal to know you're nobody's best friend?
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I would be nice if the two of you could start communicating again. Perhaps, you could find him on something like Facebook.
When I was much younger I had best friends or "BFFs". I met one while in kindergarten and we were friends for almost a decade. However, there were problems with her that for the longest time I was unable to see. Sometimes she would say disturbing or mean things. As we got older she became periodically violent, most noticeably on Sundays. The first time she hurt me was when church was over. My grandmother was talking to her fellow church goers and me and my friend were sitting in the pews. In a split second she had this look on her face and suddenly I found her chocking me. It hurt so much, I could barely speak much less breathe. I tried to ask her if she was joking or I would beg her to stop. Strangely enough no adults came over to help, they must not have heard me or saw us, I'd hate to believe that they did but did nothing to help. Eventually, she stopped but I felt very uneasy around her. She did it again in my own room a few Sundays later. Violence aside she also had a almost disturbing knowledge of sex. She used to call me up and tell me really sexual stories that sounded like XXX films. Later on, I realized that she was being abusive and took me for granted. I tried to voice my concerns but she and her friends barely listened. The friendship finally ended when I told my mother about something which caused her to call her mom up and a huge fight when down between them. Then my friend called me up and I got accused of all manner of things.
I had a male friend that I was friends with for years, but the relationship ended mainly due to my stupidity. I made fun of him and I feel so bad about it know. I passed up our great friendship to be friends with people who really weren't my and later ended up turning against me and bullying me. A part of me would like to mend things with him and if I every get the guts or the time I might actually call him up for a personal apology. However, he had some serious problems. He would hump, in front of the teachers, children. One was younger than the two of us and was horribly upset when he did it to him. I was upset because I felt like stopping him but I didn't. I might have tried to tell the teachers but they refused to listen to me as we had a falling out. The other boy was closer to our age, he humped him by riding on him like a horse while in front of the teachers who once again did nothing. The only thing they did was tell me off for trying to alert them. My friend might have been sexually abused, I know he had a friend that was a lot older than him and they would spend a lot of time playing video games together but I really don't know the whole story there. He also once told me that he had hurt his cats. O_O I know he was therapy but there's no way of knowing if he ever got better.
Its shame when stuff like this happens.