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Okay, so I know that a lot of people are insecure and my friends talk about not feeling good enough all the time, but I never felt that way..like I know I am really attractive and better than most, and I feel like most people don't even feel good. Is it normal? Is being confident wrong?
It's ok to have some level of confidence, but like everything else in life, getting the balance right is the most important thing. Supposed physical beauty doesn't make up for a cancerous personality.
Haha theres a difference between being confident and feeling "better than most". Truly confident people don't compare themselves to others.
You are not better than most, you think that you are better than most, just like your friends think they are worst off than most.
You think you're better than people because you look better than them? That's your opinion. And that's also not how it works.
"I know I am really attractive and better than most"
I think it's normal to know your place in the hierarchy of beauty, but that does not make you "better than most" if there are people who are uglier than you.
If you really are physically attractive, then naturally you have been treated better by society since childhood. How can you be truly objective then, if you have not experienced what the rest of us have? How can you judge others for having lower self-esteem when you've had an easy ride and they haven't?
Its funny cause I completely made all that up just to see people's reaction. Jokes on youuu
There is a difference between feeling good about yourself, and thinking you're better then most other people, that's called narcissism.
also, is it normal that i know I'm better than you because I'm not cocky and conceited?
it will hit you. just wait till you experience failure and real world problems... just wait.
Well, son, that's your own personal opinion of yourself. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Just remember, just because you think that you're better than most people doesn't make it so - you will never be everyone's cup of tea, and there is always somene out there who is better than you... always.