Is it normal to keep up memorial items of what I've lost?

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  • I have the ashes of two cats I lost in two urns. I have a copy of a love letter my grandfather wrote my grandmother when he was around 18 or 19 years old. I also have a baby shower invitation from a friend who died in childbirth. Just to name a few.

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    • Oh man that love letter must be so precious in the context of your family. What an amazing, beautiful thing to have obtained :)

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      • Thanks, it's very precious to me! It's actually a color copy of the original which I placed in her urn as per her wishes after she passed away.

        Do you have any special items that you keep in memorial of those you've lost?

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        • Oh yeah sure.
          I have a framed photograph of my grandfather sitting at his typewriter in Egypt in 1938.
          I have a book of songs and poetry that my childhood friend Stuart Groen wrote and passed on to me before he died.
          you can see a video recording of him playing one of his songs here
          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BP2-dAH2qZQ

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          • That guy is GREAT; So much talent! I can picture myself listening to it on a car radio, it's a very beautiful song. It's so alive, full of passion and longing.
            :-)
            I don't even know him and I wish he was still around!
            :-'(

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            • Yeah heaps of talent. What was so awe inspiring about Stuart was he was equal parts talent and productivity, what he created in his short life was quite astounding. He had written a trilogy of fantasy books, was halfway through writing the last one when he died. He played in a local Sydney band called Archives he wrote songs and poetry wherever he went, on napkins, on paper bags, little scraps of paper. I have a file on my computer of songs he recorded solo and they are just brilliant. As a creative person myself he was a very inspiring force in my life and he continues to be post death.

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              • "We are all born with potential; potential to grow,
                potential to change and potential to bloom. The
                butterfly, one of nature’s most beautiful creatures,
                is the final result of a life spent shifting, readjusting,
                and improving. Known for the complex iridescent
                patterns upon their wings, and their other worldly
                flutter; butterflies enter the world as nothing more than
                a soft egg, clinging to the underside of a leaf. To see
                a butterfly in motion is beautiful, to understand, to
                understand the tumultuous journey it has taken, is to
                be inspired."
                -Stuart Groen

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              • I hope you don't mind if I ask but how did he die?

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