I don't know that you can get him, but it would nag at you forever if you didn't try -- assuming you're both currently not attached, that is.
You sound like you have too much respect for yourself to let yourself be made a fool of by anyone, so speak your mind to him and tell him you're tired of feeling played. If he can't be honest with you, then he doesn't deserve your friendship or your love.
It sounds like he's interested but maybe isn't sure where he stands with you, so let him know. If he finally pulls his head out of his ass and realizes what a great catch you are, fantastic! Otherwise, you'll be free of someone who ultimately wasn't the good fit he seemed to be.
It's kind of a bad sign that he had a girlfriend he didn't tell you about, though, so I'd be careful. That isn't entirely kind to you or to her despite your assertion that he has a good heart. He might, but it's buried under some immaturity if he's still pulling that kind of stunt. Still, if you let him know how you feel, you can then control how you act on that knowledge.
It's always better to walk away with dignity than to cling and lose it.
Is it normal to keep going back to the same boy. .
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I don't know that you can get him, but it would nag at you forever if you didn't try -- assuming you're both currently not attached, that is.
You sound like you have too much respect for yourself to let yourself be made a fool of by anyone, so speak your mind to him and tell him you're tired of feeling played. If he can't be honest with you, then he doesn't deserve your friendship or your love.
It sounds like he's interested but maybe isn't sure where he stands with you, so let him know. If he finally pulls his head out of his ass and realizes what a great catch you are, fantastic! Otherwise, you'll be free of someone who ultimately wasn't the good fit he seemed to be.
It's kind of a bad sign that he had a girlfriend he didn't tell you about, though, so I'd be careful. That isn't entirely kind to you or to her despite your assertion that he has a good heart. He might, but it's buried under some immaturity if he's still pulling that kind of stunt. Still, if you let him know how you feel, you can then control how you act on that knowledge.
It's always better to walk away with dignity than to cling and lose it.