Is it normal to keep a big sicret?

I really wanna tell something big to one of my family members. It is a secret releted to that person. But it is something big and it can destroied the whole terms in the family and that is not my intention.The situation is so confusing and it makeing me feel bad for keeping it to myslef but I dont really know what to do.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • e51pegasi

    Does this secret have anything to do with functional illiteracy?

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    • sweetchildiguess

      no

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      • e51pegasi

        Nazi war criminals?

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        • sweetchildiguess

          it is more like connected with one of the parents

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          • e51pegasi

            Put us out of our misery, spill the beans.

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  • lonewolf1253

    I had a sicret once but it grew too large for it's cage so I had to sell it. Those sicrets can get pretty damn big!

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    • sweetchildiguess

      i feel you

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  • Carma3

    Can’t really comment because I don’t know what it is but if it’s not life or death some things are better left unsaid
    “there some wars not worth fighting
    Some tears not worth crying”

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    If it's guilting you, then find a way to tell them anonymously?

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  • itachi_uchiha

    Actually i didnt get a lot coz of some grammer & literature mistakes but Before telling the secret think how it will affect your relations with family

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  • Iszzy123

    Was it insest? And tell a complete stranger you trus you'll never see again

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  • Could it hurt someone if you don't spill? Is it really your place to tell? Is it something serious, like a crime, or just drama?

    Perhaps depending on your answers to those questions, you can decide whether or not this secret is even worth fretting over.

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  • AntiArchon

    were you molested?

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  • Annaegg

    Is one of your parents cheating?

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    • sweetchildiguess

      nah

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  • Paigiepoo

    You have no idea, and I'll never tell

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