Is it normal to just want the sex part of the relationship?

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I am in my mid 40s, female, and I am very busy with a day job and a band at night. I'm currently not seeing anyone so I am totally horny. I would like to to have sex but I don't want a guy around, hanging out at my gigs, taking up what little time I have to myself. I don't want a guy cutting into my friend time, I guess I just don't want a relationship. Am I normal?

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77% Normal
Based on 71 votes (55 yes)
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  • Racoon
    13 years ago

    .... you are the perfect product of our modern individualist society...

    just buy a dildo or get a fuck-friend.

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  • HiAGAIN10
    8 years ago

    Yes. Some people are in love with things that drive them more than people that don't. Its nice to have your life to yourself, doing the things you love more than forcing yourself to be perfect for someone else, getting sex here and there. Usually younger people are like that. But if you feel that way at 40, go ahead.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    advertise on craigs list for a friend with benefits.. im sure youll have lots of guys to choose from

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    friends with benefits :)

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  • SuperLouis
    13 years ago

    Get a dildo

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  • Sugarcoateddoll
    13 years ago

    yeah its normal you are human. But... its not good :P

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  • cinnalife
    13 years ago

    Yup you're perfect!!

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  • raerae
    13 years ago

    I totally agree with you. I have a very good male friend and we have an understanding that the friendship is just strictly for sex and no strings attached. I'm married but there are times i just want something different and he is the one. There's no oral or deep kissing straight up sex with protection.

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  • vaalkaar
    13 years ago

    Wow, you sound like a female version of my future self. Yes, you're totally normal.

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  • Ribbit.
    13 years ago

    Perfect answer Racoon!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Is booty call the same for females?

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    I want fuck-freinds too.

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