Is it normal to just want sex?

I recently started a new job and talking to a colleague and we got on well but then i found out he had a habit of sleeping around and dropping girls. Now i really want to sleep with him to the point that i sit and stare at him and think of all the things i could do to him ( i then proceed to get excited to the point of nearly having an orgasm ) and then have to stop myself. Now i know this could all be considered normal if i fancied him but i have no romantic feelings or wish for romantic involvement and ive never really had an overwhelming reaction to someone like that. i just want to have sex with him once and ditch him like hes done to so many girls. Is it normal ?

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Based on 160 votes (132 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • Shackleford96

    Well, I don't see why you couldn't make it happen then.

    You wouldn't be 'getting back' at him by doing it though, because it would be just another -normal- one night stand to him probably. If you really wanted to get back at him, you would have to come up with something more clever. It would have to be something really vindictive and hateful such as making him fall in love with you, and THEN dumping him out of the blue. I am not suggesting that you do that though.

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    • tigerprawn

      There's fun with just fucking like rabbits though... yes

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      • Shackleford96

        I wouldn't know.

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  • Unimportant

    Hmm... You want to sleep with him once and then ditch him.

    Soo... One sexual encounter and then it's over?

    How would it be any different from his usual routine?

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Rape him.

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    • Ipooprainbows

      HAHAH that made me LOL

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      • XcOoKiEsX

        ^ LMAO

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    • Ipooprainbows

      I would RAPE him too, my sister and I usually joke around by saying we are going to Rape him (if we see a hot dude!)

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      • KeddersPrincess

        Lol. Me too.

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  • Energy

    Yes. I think most people have been in your position.

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  • hybee

    It's normal maybe, but also pretty stupid. What would be the difference between you and all the other women he's had? You'd just be one more notch on his bedpost.

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  • Sador1960

    I've been w/women @ different jobs n places & i really like sex a lot. i love when she's also into it too. But i dont need relationships, however even w/ sex with different girls, i still masterb8 when i'm alone. Sumtimes i think i need to take something to waterdown the urge becausebit can be frustrating as hell.

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  • tehwalrus

    It's a bad idea to fuck co-workers. otherwise I'd be all for your plan.

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  • tigerprawn

    hay GoraIntoDesiGals chill babe xx

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    So if op was a guy wanting to do this with a girl he'd be a heartless pig but the other way round it's acceptable? I'm not even going to mention the rape comment a few posts above. THIS is what I hate about current feminism.

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  • standbyme555

    Just be careful of stds.

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  • Willtheman

    Its very normal. Everyone will have at least one sex craving in their life.

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    • tigerprawn

      more than 1 sex craving, several is more likely

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