Yes, I know exactly how you feel. That type of (personal) social disconnect without communication as for why isn't easy, because as humans we naturally wonder why. Is it me, is it something I did, or is it you, are you okay, is something wrong, do we not have anything in common anymore? So many questions, but no answers. You are left to wonder. Complete closure is impossible, so you can't just let it go so easily.
It's like, if you don't want to be friends just say so. You don't have to act like you're my friend in person, but when it comes down to it you never want to do anything anymore, avoiding all my phone calls and never returning my messages. I wouldn't be hurt for you to just tell me, but your a fucking pussy and won't do that. That's just being two-faced and cowardly. Have the guts to admit to someone how you feel. But no, admitting that would also mean to admit that their loyalty in the friendship is less than yours. Some people are too prideful for that.
It won't be easy, because maybe you two really were good friends at one point, but something changed. People change. It will be best if you do let it go, because the friendship is obviously one-sided now and you deserve better. You deserve a friend who will always be there for you when you need them. Unfaltering loyalty and implicit trust. Someone who would stick up for you. Someone who would take a bullet for you, and you would do the same for them. Someone you could go indefinite periods of time without talking to, and years later, when you finally discover that they are still alive, the friendship will begin right where it left off.
They are hard to find anymore, but there are still some good people in this world. I truly believe in that.
Is it normal to just let a friendship go?
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Yes, I know exactly how you feel. That type of (personal) social disconnect without communication as for why isn't easy, because as humans we naturally wonder why. Is it me, is it something I did, or is it you, are you okay, is something wrong, do we not have anything in common anymore? So many questions, but no answers. You are left to wonder. Complete closure is impossible, so you can't just let it go so easily.
It's like, if you don't want to be friends just say so. You don't have to act like you're my friend in person, but when it comes down to it you never want to do anything anymore, avoiding all my phone calls and never returning my messages. I wouldn't be hurt for you to just tell me, but your a fucking pussy and won't do that. That's just being two-faced and cowardly. Have the guts to admit to someone how you feel. But no, admitting that would also mean to admit that their loyalty in the friendship is less than yours. Some people are too prideful for that.
It won't be easy, because maybe you two really were good friends at one point, but something changed. People change. It will be best if you do let it go, because the friendship is obviously one-sided now and you deserve better. You deserve a friend who will always be there for you when you need them. Unfaltering loyalty and implicit trust. Someone who would stick up for you. Someone who would take a bullet for you, and you would do the same for them. Someone you could go indefinite periods of time without talking to, and years later, when you finally discover that they are still alive, the friendship will begin right where it left off.
They are hard to find anymore, but there are still some good people in this world. I truly believe in that.