Even in your reply, your need to convince me that you're accomplished seems rather strong, given the words you used... and the quick dismissal of what I suggested might also mean that it truly is worth taking a second look inside yourself. I could be wrong, of course.
If I am, well... "most people" wouldn't side with you, I think. Most people are not concerned with other people they don't know and who don't impact their lives directly. It doesn't make you "bad" per se, it simply means there is something about this person that drives you to extremes - the amount of energy you are giving to her, the amount of influence you are letting her have over you... is staggering, for a stranger. ESPECIALLY one who is so "worthless". People simply do not care about "worthless" strangers that have no impact on their life. She is having an impact on your life somehow. You'll probably feel a bit better when you figure out WHY she is.
"She is having an impact on your life somehow. You'll probably feel a bit better when you figure out WHY she is."
Uhhhh, no. I would feel better if she died in a fire that left my apartment totally untouched sure but for me to go as far as to say that she has an influence over me or has any sort of impact on my life what so ever is an incorrect observation.
Is it normal to judge this person so harshly?
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Even in your reply, your need to convince me that you're accomplished seems rather strong, given the words you used... and the quick dismissal of what I suggested might also mean that it truly is worth taking a second look inside yourself. I could be wrong, of course.
If I am, well... "most people" wouldn't side with you, I think. Most people are not concerned with other people they don't know and who don't impact their lives directly. It doesn't make you "bad" per se, it simply means there is something about this person that drives you to extremes - the amount of energy you are giving to her, the amount of influence you are letting her have over you... is staggering, for a stranger. ESPECIALLY one who is so "worthless". People simply do not care about "worthless" strangers that have no impact on their life. She is having an impact on your life somehow. You'll probably feel a bit better when you figure out WHY she is.
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"She is having an impact on your life somehow. You'll probably feel a bit better when you figure out WHY she is."
Uhhhh, no. I would feel better if she died in a fire that left my apartment totally untouched sure but for me to go as far as to say that she has an influence over me or has any sort of impact on my life what so ever is an incorrect observation.
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You are completely weak to the IMMENSE power she holds over you. You're obsessed with her. It's not normal, or healthy.