Is it normal to judge this person so harshly?

You're exhibiting a rather desperate need for this woman's qualities to somehow measure up to your standards, when she has nothing to do with you. It is actually somewhat common for people to do this sort of thing, and it's called "projection".

Lots of times, the things we hate most in others are things we dislike about ourselves. It doesn't mean those issues are current, or even on the surface, but they are qualities that we have experienced intimately at some point.

To find the answer to why you despise a complete stranger so much, I would strongly suggest looking inwards. The problem lies within you, and has nothing to do with her. In the realm of the mind, this is logical and deductive reasoning.

Do you feel you could do more with your life? Have you struggled through a time when you felt you didn't do enough? Do you have a tendency to judge yourself very harshly, and that drives you to work extra hard, to prove to yourself you are a worthwhile person? Do you sometimes worry about what your neighbors think of you, and whether or not you are a "waste of space" or "demented"?

As mentioned before, what you're doing is called "projecting". It doesn't mean you are just like this woman, or that you would even answer "yes" to the above questions, necessarily, but when we despise someone we do not even know, it is often because of issues that we are trying to deal with that our minds assign to the stranger. It's easier to deal with these issues externally, rather than internally. It also frees us of some of the judgment we cast upon others.

I would suggest considering this, at least, for while it might not ALL be accurate, I think you'll find some enlightening things by thinking it over.

Who made you judge and jury - get back to work!!

Dear OP.

Kill yourself.

Signed,
Everyone!

Maybe she's mentally ill.

Well you're a sorry crack whore, and it ”infuriates” me to no end that people as awful as you are still allowed to roam the earth polluting it with your disgusting personality. Shouldn't creatures like you be locked up by now?

Your problem is that you assume she's a "lazy loser" without actually knowing her situation.

Sounds like you are just mad at her for living above you and you're looking for reasons to trash talk her to justify your anger

And you wonder why she ignores you? Probably because she knows you're looking down your nose at her. I wouldn't want to talk to a neighbor who called me a loser either.

It's normal. We all judge. It's a good thing, we want a good society, not a sloppy one.

It's normal to judge harshly. We are all at least fairly judgmental. But 'normal' people hate what's different. I know this, from being on the outside of the box.

You need therapy. That, or to go live in a cave in the mountains to spare other people from encountering you and your creepy hatefulness. You sound like a sociopath, seriously.

and what made you perfect maybe she thinks the same about you and if you work so hard than where is the time to be all up on her and be mean to her really have you ever heard of a bully because it describes you to a t

You have a problem. Your completely obssessed with this person you know nothing about and hate her from the depths of your soul because shes not like you? Maybe your parents didn't love you enough. Or maybe you have a mental condition. I hope to god you don't have children and treat them like that. You should see a doctor

Dear OP,
Grow up you're a total dick, she's socially awkward, so what? I am as well. She may have a medical issue with it like myself, who's to say she doesn't work online either, she could make twice as much money as you so I doubt she's lazy.

Grow the fuck up please, thanks.

Wow, it sounds like ur the neighbor from hell jejeje leave your neighbor alone n live your life. So what if he/she doesn't acknowledge you just bcuz u live in the same complex doesn't mean you have to talk. BTW the way you're expressing yourself about ur neighbor (that you don't even know) says a lot about who you are as a person. You can be hard working n be financially well off but that doesn't really matter when you have a nasty personality. #justsaying

OP means original poster which means the person who wrote the story in which case would be you. Please leave her alone and concentrate on your own life

Doesnt seem worth it to me to worry about it that much, she will be dead one day anyway, and so will you.

Same for me.