Is it normal to ignore your best friend because you are jelous?

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I've been best friends with her for 6 years and she used to be the same as me.. shy, crazy deep down, love for unusual stuff, hard to get along with other people so not many friends... etc..
But now she's starting to move on... she's made a load of new friends and is out partying most of the time and i got jelous...
I kept not speaking to her and then kept telling her "I'm fine" all the time when she asked what's up and then now she stopped speaking to me altogether.

She hasn't actually told me to get lost or anything she just hasn't spoke to me in a while. I think she's gave up with me..
But i really love her to bits.. i can't stop thinking about her everyday and i just want my old best friend back..
I would speak to her myself but i think she's fully moved on now and i don't want to keep hurting her again.
I remember she cut herself once when i stopped speaking to her the first time.
I'm just bad for her and i want to move on myself but i can't.

Wow i've rambled on a bit... sorry xx
But is it normal for me to act like this?
How can i move on?

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Based on 74 votes (44 yes)
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  • Kat444
    14 years ago

    She's probably a lot happier now that she's more social. She might be frustrated with you because you don't apreciate her new friends and the things that make her happy. This is pretty normal, people do change and move on. Let her know that you're there for her if she ever needs you, but don't expect things to go back to the way they used to be.

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  • mogeta
    13 years ago

    just tell her how you feel. don't keep it all to yourself. She's probably concerned about your behavior

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  • kawa16
    14 years ago

    you shouldnt of stopped talking to her just because of her friends so no its not normal. I had the same problem in highschool my friend adriana starting talking to more people and i just ignored her knew friends i said hi once in a while and talked to her but before i knew it i barley talked to her. What i wish i should of done was hang out with her and her friends that was the only way i could have stayed friends with her but its to late. (for me) because i beat up her boyfriend so ya he hated me and always talked bad about me infront of her. and if she likes you that much, that shes cutting herself maybe you should talk to her more and try to get along with her new friends if you cant stand them hang out with your friends and her. if that dont work and you like her more then friends ask her on a date (if you like her). I liked adriana but i didnt know she liked me so i never asked her out i wish i would have done something.

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  • oumayma
    13 years ago

    i have the same problem and i get so jelous when she hang out with other friends i really want her so bad but things change and i just want my old bff again i dont know what to do!

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox
    13 years ago

    ur not a very good friend then.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ur not a very good friend then.

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  • dashin
    14 years ago

    show her tis story RIGHT NOW!! BEFORE ITS TOOOO LATE Trust me if u do thi then afterwards you will not be burdened with the thought that u could've SAVED ur GR8 FRIENDSHIP!! Act now email her this story...or tell her all this on phone RIGHT NOW!!!!

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