Is it normal to ignore my best friend

My "hook up" guy of about 5 years is getting married. we always liked each other but never dated. everyone thought we would end up together. then he started dating one of my friends. he still wanted to hook up with me when they were dating and i did it once and feel terrible. i was able to face him when they were dating bc ppl always break up. now, he asked her to marry him. she of course said yes. when i heard that they were engaged i didnt cry or anything.. just hated him a little and was jealous. the first day i faced him i cried my eyes out. i can never see him again. its terrible. now, i ignore him and try to avoid him in any possible situation. is that normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • i know hoe you feel but the guy i liked alot isnt married lol
    hes dating all these different chicks all the time
    but i confused becuase he said he would never give up on me but yet he did and i said the same to him as well and gave up on him
    :/

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  • You were hookup buddies from day one. By not having a "title" on your relationship gave him the freedom to do what he wanted. Obviously, he doesn't desire a serious relationship with you otherwise it would've happened. Be happy for your friend and move on!

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  • The same happened to me... But it has not ended in a marriage, when i broke up with my bf a friend of mine that i loved for 4 years told me that he always loved me too but i dont love him yet. If he had told me before rhe things should be different...
    Did you tried to say him about your feelings? I know that this life is not a movie but sometimes he would change his mind or get courage to face your love.

    Maybe he engaged her because he thinks you dont love him =\

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  • To long of a story mine is I'm a kid

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