He did. Only his parents, ex-girlfriend, and older sibling were allowed to read it. The only thing that I'm sure it said, via his mother, was that he didn't want any funeral services.
Have you ever tried asking any of them about it? Considering how much this has affected you, I'm assuming you were pretty close to him, so I don't think you'd be coming across as nosy by inquiring. And if they do ask why you need to know, just be honest: For closure.
I asked his brother once and his response was "Don't ever ask me that again". I didn't take it personally, considering that I understood how fragile a ground I was treading. Thank you so much for this conversation. I greatly appreciate your words.
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Did he leave a note? That might explain his reason why.
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He did. Only his parents, ex-girlfriend, and older sibling were allowed to read it. The only thing that I'm sure it said, via his mother, was that he didn't want any funeral services.
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Have you ever tried asking any of them about it? Considering how much this has affected you, I'm assuming you were pretty close to him, so I don't think you'd be coming across as nosy by inquiring. And if they do ask why you need to know, just be honest: For closure.
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I asked his brother once and his response was "Don't ever ask me that again". I didn't take it personally, considering that I understood how fragile a ground I was treading. Thank you so much for this conversation. I greatly appreciate your words.