I think feeling betrayal, hurt, anger because of the way your relationship ended is perfectly natural. To add to that frustration, you've never been able to let him know how angry he made you. You want payback for being victimized.
Time will help; it can take 6 months to two years to feel good or normal about it again.
Since getting even could land you in jail, my next suggestion to relieve some of your anger would be to start making yourself busy to take your mind off of it. Dwelling will only make you feel worse than you already do. Accept this bad situation as a learning experience in your life.
Accept the pain/anger as a part of life & being an active participant in your life, and then be willing to give yourself a break; you made a mistake dating him - and that's fine, that's what life is about. If you can find at least one positive thing that you learned (for example; you are now more aware of how important fidelity is in a mate), then you'll be well on your way to healing.
Is it Normal to Hold a Grudge for so long...?
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I think feeling betrayal, hurt, anger because of the way your relationship ended is perfectly natural. To add to that frustration, you've never been able to let him know how angry he made you. You want payback for being victimized.
Time will help; it can take 6 months to two years to feel good or normal about it again.
Since getting even could land you in jail, my next suggestion to relieve some of your anger would be to start making yourself busy to take your mind off of it. Dwelling will only make you feel worse than you already do. Accept this bad situation as a learning experience in your life.
Accept the pain/anger as a part of life & being an active participant in your life, and then be willing to give yourself a break; you made a mistake dating him - and that's fine, that's what life is about. If you can find at least one positive thing that you learned (for example; you are now more aware of how important fidelity is in a mate), then you'll be well on your way to healing.
Hang in there.