Is it normal to hide your sexual fantasies from your boyfriend?

And your sex fantasies ARE?????..........

There is nothing grotesque about those, they're actually fairly common fetishes.

Okay well...my fanties are to be fattened up and stuff of course id never ever want it to really happen but i have a thing for vellies myself and my own and i like beong tied down and stuff- there i said it >.<

just how weird and grotesque are we talking here i mean if it freaks out the people on this site id keep it secret but i bet if you share a little you will probably find lots of support.. so go on share a little

Oh i dont know...>.< every time i start thinking about telling him i just fear rejection, he knows partially what i like but he doesnt know the dark parts...it makes me mad i wasnt born like everyone else, turned on by normal things

What kind of fantasies are they

Tell him. My fantasies are sick, kinky, taboo, and unacceptable . I used to feel as you do but not anymore . If you are both adults and agree then it does not matter how different your thoughts are. Talk to him and you could be surprised . He might be just as turned on as you. It worked for me.

why don't you go about it by saying "i saw "insert fantasy" in a porno" or "i read about "insert fantasy" in a book" and ask him what he thinks to get a feel of his reaction? your fantasy might actually be quite common or normal, there's just a lot of things that are taboo so we don't exactly share the details when discussing sex with our friends or whoever we talk about these things with.

Okay! I need to gather my bollocks and say! I want it my way! Thank you guys :3 <3

I think you're normal for being worried about it. The guy in my last relationship laughed and made fun of me when I told him my sexual fantasies(and it's not like it was odd stuff). I wanted to punch him in the nose, but I didn't.

Embrace being a weirdo. Don't be happy with status quo! You're a revolutionary, don't be afraid to deviate from the norm! Set new boundaries and let those you love know the real you! Get a good fuck already! He will want to pleasure you! And if he rejects you he doesn't love the real you and you should move on to new and better things!

Besides, a weirdo is just a normal person who is willing to admit to the thoughts and ideas that others are afraid to.

Why don't you want to tell him? It's great when two couples talk about eachother's fantasies and are able to know how to turn eachother on. You shouldn't be scared to tell him. If he really cares about you he'd understand. We all have weird fantasies. Don't be scared.

What the fuck?! Sexual fantasies are meant to be shared with your partner, dont be an afraid pussy! Tell it!

I have a pee fetish.

I have lots of fun weird fantasies but am afraid that she might think something is wrong with me. Then again she probably has some too and might think I would consider hers weird too. I guess you just have to go for it. If two people can be open enough to help and/or let each other enjoy their fantasies I KNOW this world would be a much happier place!!
I would love to watch my wife get fucked by a couple other guys, I would love to eat my cum from her pussy, I would love to drink her golden stream straight from her well, I would love to piss all over her and her piss all over me and on and on. Is that weird??

I feel the same way and I thought I was alone but I got the courage to tell my boyfriend what fetish I have/ what turns me on like crazy (and it's by no means normal) and he accepts it and will even do it/ take part in it because he knows how into it I am. Take a chance and Tell him.. If he doesn't support you and respect you in all aspects l, then you shouldn't be with him and you'll meet mister right that either respects it or might even have the same fetish as you! Communication is important.. Just remember that :)

Yea, I feel the same way. I even feel bad for liking such shit! I wish the normal stuff turned me on too, well they do..just not as much as the stuff I like. Either get some guts, and take a risk (atleast if he's cool with it you'll be very happy ;). Or...keep hiding it from him.

Agreed

Right answer, mando