Is it normal to hide the pain of which i feel?

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There is a person who I like so much, and no matter how much I tell her that I love her, all she can think of me is a friend. I'm happy with our friendship but I just love her so much. Because of that, everyday I just end up getting more and more hurt. I always told her that I'm happy, but I didn't tell her how much I'm hurting inside. Maybe I didn't want to because I didn't want to hurt her. Maybe I didn't want her to think that I was getting hurt. But I never regret hiding the pain that I feel. And I never regret loving her.

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  • Troll
    11 years ago | pl

    If I ate 1.000.000.000 metric tons of water in 1 second I would die.

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  • smciver2
    13 years ago | pl

    Try to realize the fact that she doesn't feel the same way that you do and if you were to have a relationship it wudnt be real cuz shed b fake. U will find someone that u will love more trust me

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  • BrokenHeartz
    13 years ago | pl

    Well I already tried moving on. I really tried everything before, but the thing is I just can't replace her. She saved me and gave me a reason to live my life. She even helped me to move on. After a few months without hearing about her, I thought I had completely forgotten about my feelings towards her, but as days passed by, I slowly realized that it was still her who I actually like. For me trying to believe that I don't love her would hurt me more. She does hurt me sometimes, but she is the friend who can make me feel this way. I don't even know how I'll live without her.

    Thanks for the advice^_^

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Well - you can't make someone else love you if that is not how they feel. So try to get away from how you feel, and tune in to where they are at.

    Admittedly, you won't like it, because you are not entitled to her affection. But you have to get beyond yourself.

    Cause until you do, you won't admit reality and just move on to where you can actually find someone for you.

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  • PoisonFlowers
    13 years ago | pl

    Yes, it's normal. I've been there. I'm there now, actually. The only difference is, I never said anything.

    The only thing you can do is move on. It will take time, but these things always do. Be happy that you still have this person in your life, even though they may not love you in the same way.

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