How long have yall been together? If it were me I would kind of let her figure it out, if we had been together for a while, because I wouldn't want to lose her. Or I'd just ease that information to her over a period of time. I'd definitely see a psychiatrist and try to get it treated. If you tell her you're schizophrenic there's a good chance she will try not to get too attached. Someone above said it's not fair to the girl, which is true, but sometimes you have to be on YOUR side so to speak. If you really love her and don't want to lose her you have to do what you can to keep her happy and her with you.
I've been in your same situation. I dated a girl that I found out had schizophrenia. The only advice I can give you on the condition is dont smoke weed or drink alcohol. Because that's when she seemed to start becoming delusional. I ended up having to drop her off at the emergency room the first day I smoked weed with her. I feel really bad for the girl. She's a beautiful girl still and she can't keep a relationship because of her issues. It's really fucked up that she was dealt those cards. It doesnt sound like you're nearly as bad as her. She said she was seeing demons when she hit the blunt. No bueno.
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How long have yall been together? If it were me I would kind of let her figure it out, if we had been together for a while, because I wouldn't want to lose her. Or I'd just ease that information to her over a period of time. I'd definitely see a psychiatrist and try to get it treated. If you tell her you're schizophrenic there's a good chance she will try not to get too attached. Someone above said it's not fair to the girl, which is true, but sometimes you have to be on YOUR side so to speak. If you really love her and don't want to lose her you have to do what you can to keep her happy and her with you.
I've been in your same situation. I dated a girl that I found out had schizophrenia. The only advice I can give you on the condition is dont smoke weed or drink alcohol. Because that's when she seemed to start becoming delusional. I ended up having to drop her off at the emergency room the first day I smoked weed with her. I feel really bad for the girl. She's a beautiful girl still and she can't keep a relationship because of her issues. It's really fucked up that she was dealt those cards. It doesnt sound like you're nearly as bad as her. She said she was seeing demons when she hit the blunt. No bueno.