Is it normal to have your friends complaing so much?i

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This year I've entered college and started hanging out with two girls. Since I never had a lot of friends, I was a little bit susceptible to their actions or comments regarding my life.

First of all, they didn't like me spending so much time with my boyfriend(two or three afternoons per week) or me studying when I could (in average 1h per day). They also usually complained that sometimes we spent one whole day without talking or phonning each other. The most common complain was that I never got drunk and I should do it because it's fun. They actually made fun of me due to all of those things and also my geek hobbies. They even got to the point to say that I woke up to early!
They said that my life sucked, that my routine consisted on four things:

College
Boyfriend
Family
Sport

Is it normal to have friends complaing so much about your life?
Is it normal not to phone/speak to each other everyday?
Is it normal to have this type of routine?

(I'm not from an english speaking country, so it is most likely this text is full of errors! Sorry!)

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Comments ( 7 )
  • mtnw
    13 years ago

    you are normal, your friends are too involved in their opinions of your life.

    you don't need to talk to them on the phone daily if you don't want to.

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  • Lizbit
    13 years ago

    If you keep trying to live up to thier 'standards' your grades will suffer. Get new friends, the ones you mentioned here are more frienimies (friends/enimies).

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  • sportsmom
    13 years ago

    Not normal. Friends should support you not try to bring you down.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    It sounds like your friends are really needy, controlling, and rude. You should get new friends.

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  • Tazwiz
    11 years ago

    Some people are like that! They get jealous or miss ur company probably. Also when some people get to know others they think u want their opinion 24/7 and won't get offended. And some people are just weird !!!!!

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  • Dricey
    13 years ago

    You're normal, they're not.

    Your English is perfect, aside from one or two typos that could happen to anyone.

    Keep it up

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    But it is normal to talk everyday by phone or text or whatever...

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