Families can fuck you up if you're not careful. I come from a busy household and my family are also the kind to always be bitching behind each others' backs. They can also be confrontational and overly-dramatic. However, I love them and I know they love me, even when it doesn't seem like it - my father is deliberately excluding me from the family at the moment. I'm not even sure why as I definitely have done nothing wrong. Most of my immediate family members also think my ambitions are a joke. Not everyone's family is like the families gathered around dinner tables in TV adverts :P
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You need to live your own life or you will live to regret it one day. Show them how serious you are about modeling by having a realistic plan to back up your ambition with.
I think you should write a letter to your family clearly outlining the situation in which you feel you now stand, without sounding angry, bitter or begrudging. Include that you love them and that you felt a letter was the easiest way to let them completely know how you feel about things without it errupting into an argument or interruptions. Be willing to make compromises if you play a part in causing the negative environment also (you could be completely innocent, I have no idea).
As for your brother in jail - can't you visit him by yourself and tell him your side of the story? Also, your mum may have been scaremongering a little so don't worry too much about that.
Anyways, good luck.
thankyou for that i really do appreciate it. yeah i know they love me like i called my mom this morning but she was pissed screaming that my brother in jail is disappointed in me but shit dude i know i fuck up alot alot but im not a bad person just make stupid ass decisions.
is it normal to have your family hate you?
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Families can fuck you up if you're not careful. I come from a busy household and my family are also the kind to always be bitching behind each others' backs. They can also be confrontational and overly-dramatic. However, I love them and I know they love me, even when it doesn't seem like it - my father is deliberately excluding me from the family at the moment. I'm not even sure why as I definitely have done nothing wrong. Most of my immediate family members also think my ambitions are a joke. Not everyone's family is like the families gathered around dinner tables in TV adverts :P
BUT
You need to live your own life or you will live to regret it one day. Show them how serious you are about modeling by having a realistic plan to back up your ambition with.
I think you should write a letter to your family clearly outlining the situation in which you feel you now stand, without sounding angry, bitter or begrudging. Include that you love them and that you felt a letter was the easiest way to let them completely know how you feel about things without it errupting into an argument or interruptions. Be willing to make compromises if you play a part in causing the negative environment also (you could be completely innocent, I have no idea).
As for your brother in jail - can't you visit him by yourself and tell him your side of the story? Also, your mum may have been scaremongering a little so don't worry too much about that.
Anyways, good luck.
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thankyou for that i really do appreciate it. yeah i know they love me like i called my mom this morning but she was pissed screaming that my brother in jail is disappointed in me but shit dude i know i fuck up alot alot but im not a bad person just make stupid ass decisions.