is it normal to have urges to cheat ?

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  • Communicate with him. Talk about your sex life--tell him what you like.
    If that doesn't solve the problem, you might simply not be ready for a long-term, committed relationship. Btw, specifically, which factor is causing low quality sex? Is he just really shy and self conscious about it? Does he second guess himself? Does he lack energy/enthusiasm or a strong sexual drive? Or, like you said, is it purely because of his lack experience (if that's the case, would more practice fix it)?

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    • Good answer. And about the flirting...it's very normal to want to feel desireable. If it's just harmless flirting and nothing physical, she could ask him if it crosses the line and if not maybe she could go out with girlfriends once or twice a month and get some attention.

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