Im not sure of your backround, but I agree forever anon, in my case it was just being raised in a culture of shame, I found it pretty much impossible to be to intimate without drugs or alcohol until I realized why, which was self medicating to get past my inhibitions, once I came to terms with that, I gradually stopped, took years because I had to to come to terms with this myself, didnt know about IIn lol...
IIN to have to get drunk in order to have sex with your spouse?
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Im not sure of your backround, but I agree forever anon, in my case it was just being raised in a culture of shame, I found it pretty much impossible to be to intimate without drugs or alcohol until I realized why, which was self medicating to get past my inhibitions, once I came to terms with that, I gradually stopped, took years because I had to to come to terms with this myself, didnt know about IIn lol...