Is it normal to have these naughty thoughts..

I'm 19. I've never really done anything wrong nor have i ever had sex, don't drink, smoke, part.but now i think i want to explore a dark side of me that's been waiting to come out.
I thought i was into BDSM.. which is still appealing to me, but lately what gets me going is the thought of being a "daddy's girl"
Upon doing research i realized that there are other people who feel this way as well.. but no matter how much i read.. i keep wondering if it's normal and if i should pursue it.
I've always been into older guys, more mature in age but more importantly, mature in his thinking. I've imagined being made to obey orders, (something i love) and being put across his lap and spanked and many other things.
I definitely don't want to be beaten, just spanked. so i'm afraid that if i try it, he wont understand what i want or go too far by abusing me.
any advice/tips for me?
thanks a million.
--Daddy's Little Girl (^_^)

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  • Go to your room! Your grounded!

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  • daddy won't want to just spank you and be done with you. daddy will want to have his way with all three of your holes...be ready for it and accept it if you are honest...good luck!

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  • Get married and don't throw yourself away.

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  • I think it's pretty common, although to me it seems kind of paedophilic and incest-y. But if you like it, go for it

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  • I will spank you and then fuck you so hard you will love it and finish me off by blowing me and swallowing my tasty treat. You little cunt!

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  • Spanking is the most common kink.
    See http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20120229205236AA8JULZ
    and do your own web searches.

    Do you want some reasons why?
    http://bottomsmarts.blogspot.com/2007/04/fifty-reasons-to-spank-your-wife-or.html

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  • It's normal but with any partner you have whether it's serious or not you need to talk and state clearly what you want and what you don't want. I told my boyfriends what I like and more than you think they were happy to do it. Also put your foot down when you can, if he does take advantage, the word no still means no.
    I like spanking myself, however I can't call a guy daddy...for some reason that's where I draw the line...

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  • Your very normal. You might have a high pain tolerance like me. People who want BDSM are very hard to hurt and want to reach any point of actual feeling. Vent that in healthy ways though. Don't let him try to abuse you till you bleed. You are what we called a dominatrix and you need to be the receiving end of everything.

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  • I think it's probably fairly common. My girl always calls me daddy during sex, and quite often outside of having sex as well. At first I was a little weirded out by it, but now I like it and it turns me on.

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  • go for it. have a safe word. make sure you absolutely trust who ever is involved. trust me, you can end up having ALOT of fun.

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