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I already know that my fetish specifically is weird (diapers) but i was just thinking about if fetishes in general are weird and if anyone else has strange turn ons as well. Feel free to comment yours if you want I won't judge you.
No this is not normal. I do have a few fetishes but nothing dealing with children or infantile obsessions. I like vampires and monsters and S&M with pets and master and fun little rape scenarios. Which plays into the idea of being dominated and dominating. I also have a thing for leather dog collars. Its a real turn on for me.
You need to be able to draw the difference between fantasy and reality. When you have your "fun little rape scenarios", does that mean you are a rapist? Absolutely not. Just as when people role-play age-play does not make them a child. You also need to understand the different between pedophilia and age-play. They are not the same. One involves fantasies about molesting children and minors and the other one involves role-playing AS an infant but the person has no attraction towards children at all. It is mainly an outlet and a cathartic experience for them to regress back to their infanthood.
If you really believe that means you are a rapist you do not understand what S&M is. It is between two consensual parties. One wants to be dominated and one wishes to dominate and they both enjoy the experience.
It is considered illegal and not ok when the other party is not enjoying it or consenting to it. Though if you are really attracted to children I would greatly recommend therapy so you learn to never act on your urges.
Since it often has very damaging effects on the child you choose and is in most places against the law even if the child is supposedly consenting. Children can not consent since they are easily manipulated and often will put too much trust and faith in any adult figure they deem safe or important. Might not at that age really know the difference.
No it means you are very inappropriate. It is also impossible unless you have a camera in my bedroom. In which case you have invaded my privacy and I can report you to the authorities. So I would watch where you are going with your next sentence.
Also I hardly think S&M among two consenting adults can be considered rape. Why exactly do you believe you have a right to tell people what they can and cant do inside their own bedroom?
That is like saying people can not be gay together in the privacy of thier own home since you don’t agree with it.That is their business if they want an orgy with 12 members of the same sex of consenting adults that is their choice long as they are not fucking in the middle of the streets.
If its with children it is a crime against the child and the parents and legally children can not fully consent to sex with an adult. As they are not yet fully developed or capable enough to understand the consequences and are easily manipulated. Children are neither at the same mental level as smart as they may be might not be fully matured. So in no way can you expect a child to have a truly consenting relationship with an adult.
I think what you are describing is age-play. It's entirely normal. People who are like you will often imagine they are toddlers (there are NO real children or minors involved and they are not attracted to children) and it either arouses them sexually or can also be an emotionally cathartic experience for them to regress back to their childhood.
I mean, my girlfriend & I share a fart fetish. We don't get off to it. But we're attracted to each other's scent.
As for the diaper fetish, there is a part of me that's CURIOUS... I don't know how to go about it. I guess I like it for the naughty aspect of it. I just fear SO MUCH judgement I never really experimented.
I should also add that I often have daddy fantasies, does that mean I want to have sex with my own father? No, it doesn't. Does it mean that I want to be in the role of the "daddy"? No. I want to play the role of the daughter. It's very important to distinguish between the two.