Apologies, I forgot about YOUR dilemma. You're her sister, not her mother. However, you are an adult, which makes you a parental figure in her life. Like it or not, YOU are teaching her how to behave around your mom, & as an adult. You are an influential figure in her life. You must be careful how you interact w/your mom around her. Don't question your mom's authority, integrity, etc. around your sister.Don't allow mom to fight w/you in front her. If mom insists, ask her to another room & try to resolve it quietly. Being her sister, she sees you as an equal, so, if you do it, so can she. You need to let her know (& mom separately), you won't tolerate unacceptable behavior towards mom. Don't stoop to her level. you are superior in the pecking order. She should know that. Take her out & do things w/her. This will show her 1:
IIN to have so much anger towards my sister?
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Apologies, I forgot about YOUR dilemma. You're her sister, not her mother. However, you are an adult, which makes you a parental figure in her life. Like it or not, YOU are teaching her how to behave around your mom, & as an adult. You are an influential figure in her life. You must be careful how you interact w/your mom around her. Don't question your mom's authority, integrity, etc. around your sister.Don't allow mom to fight w/you in front her. If mom insists, ask her to another room & try to resolve it quietly. Being her sister, she sees you as an equal, so, if you do it, so can she. You need to let her know (& mom separately), you won't tolerate unacceptable behavior towards mom. Don't stoop to her level. you are superior in the pecking order. She should know that. Take her out & do things w/her. This will show her 1: