Is it normal to have sexual fantasy's during sex with my eyes closed

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I fantasize that my husband is like a king and im his servant, or im a nurse hes the patient or doc, im his prostitute hes my pimp, or hes married and his wife either knows hes cheating on her laying in bed with us or she does not know and shes on a business trip(reminder just a fantasy im his real wife lol), or hes a teacher and im his student in his office doing things to get an A, anything dominant even if i were a porn star and bhe is the director/man humping me or imaging people watching me as a porn star on tv but im still with my husband having sex... But he likes it when my eyes are open and i am looking at him but im embarrassed to tell him why im closing my eyes cause of my weird imagination(cause i cant imagine with my eyes are open and cant get off..) and he thinks im thinking about other guys but im not. Is this normal or am i totally off and wrong :( and need help

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago | pl

    Why don't you try role playing. Explain to him the fantasies that you have and try to live them out. Maybe then you're eyes won't be closed since you're practicing the real thing.

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    • MsWVgal
      11 years ago

      I like this one, but I want to add that maybe a little play with blindfolds would bring a whole new level to it.

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      • Anime7
        11 years ago

        That's not a bad thought. It sounds pretty interesting, and I mean very interesting.

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      • bubbles999katie
        11 years ago

        Yeah I like this to :D

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    I would not want to change anything about you! It is great that you keep your relationship new and exciting this way, continue and don't open those eyes! Good luck with your choices

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  • Taint
    11 years ago

    You should tell him but not about his wife walking in and undressing

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    • bubbles999katie
      11 years ago

      Yeah I agree cause for some reason I think it's sexy In my imagination, it's like dominating kinda I guess but there's NO WAY I would actually ever want that to happen lol. I'm a chick and apparently I'm also confusing, if there's guys out there thinking that girls are confusing lol

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  • bubbles999katie
    11 years ago

    You know what you peep are wonderful!!! I am going to the store, doll up and totally surprise him when he gets off work, with a surprise dinner afterwards!!! I think I will go after that nurse idea first, than naughty trailer girl next!!! :D lol thank you soooo much for this, much needed!!! :D

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Sounds like you need to put on a sexy nurse outfit and drop him a hint lol

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  • BellaHeaven
    11 years ago

    Role playin fantasies. Mmmm best!!! Why don't ou ask him to play along. It's so much fun and makes for great orgasms. I promise you he will be all for it!!!

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    funny.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Yes. I usually pretend i'm a dirty trailer park slut and he's cheating on me with...me. Lol. Yours sound fun though. I might steal a couple :)

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    That's kinky.

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  • hybee
    11 years ago

    You are normal. Enjoy those fantasies. You know why? Well, I always fantasised about the same situation, the woman being my slave or maid. But I went to live in Africa, where I actually did fuck a couple of maids when my wife was working or shopping. So what do you fantasise about when you're actually doing your fanatasy? It was odd, but every time I was going to do the maid I had to think about it well in advance to get myself worked up, otherwise I couldn't fantasise because I just thought "Well, this isn't a fantasy, you're doing it!"

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  • bubbles999katie
    11 years ago

    But dressing up role playing and still closing eyes sounds like an amazing idea!!!! Got my idea from you anime7, thank you!!!! Lol cause when I close my eyes everything gets as intense as I want it as far as my storie line goes and it's the locations say the kingdom is made out of gold and I'm laying on his huge king plush bed!!!! Lol than all of a sudden his wife walks in and starts getting undressed ect lol I don't tell him those kinda of fantasies cause I'm not sure if I actually want those to run threw his head lol!!! So I guess it's my secret til I exactly know what I want ;)

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  • bubbles999katie
    11 years ago

    You guys are great, lol thank you this makes me feel a whole lot better!!! And yeah I do want to try role playing but sometimes it doesn't seem as real as closing eyes cause its the location and everything haha, I'm letting my man know I'm normal!!! :D :D :D and thank you ill keep those eyes shut, and I love the trailer park dirty girl idea like joe dirts hot girl trailer park chick I can pretend I'm like that hot but trashy look I love it!!!! Lol and my trailer trash man gotta do what he says or I get a spankin cause I've been naughty lol!!!

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