What shames me the most, even more that the fact that I enjoyed it at times, is that I didn't bring it to anyones attention. If I had, my sister may have not had to endure it for 7 years......
7-9 years old is old enough to know its wrong and say no. I enjoyed the pleasure I got from it. That was my choice.
I wouldn't consider it blaming myself. That would be taking the victim stance, and I Refuse to be a victim. I think of it more as taking ownership for the part I had in it. If I see myself as helpless in the past, I'll probably see myself as helpless in the future.
I only partly blame him as well. My uncle molested him, so he's to blame also. Geez what a bunch of trailer trash huh :)
is it normal to have sex with your siblings?
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What shames me the most, even more that the fact that I enjoyed it at times, is that I didn't bring it to anyones attention. If I had, my sister may have not had to endure it for 7 years......
7-9 years old is old enough to know its wrong and say no. I enjoyed the pleasure I got from it. That was my choice.
I wouldn't consider it blaming myself. That would be taking the victim stance, and I Refuse to be a victim. I think of it more as taking ownership for the part I had in it. If I see myself as helpless in the past, I'll probably see myself as helpless in the future.
I only partly blame him as well. My uncle molested him, so he's to blame also. Geez what a bunch of trailer trash huh :)
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that's not your fault.
just because your body had an orgasm doesn't mean you fully consented.
it's not your fault he convinced you otherwise