Thank you for your comments. There's only 2 of us in the family. We are both in our 40s. She is still single and my wife died 7 years ago. I have 2 sons but both have their own families. Do you think there would still be damage in the family if we keep it discreetly? If in the future she fully agrees (which I strongly believe she will) and begin a consensual sex with me, what do you think would be the consequences?
Since I became a widower, i have been living alone for years, and so is she for being single. She only has maids in the house and never go out with any men, not even once but only with me and her female friends sometimes.
That was the first time she was ever touched by a man, and my first time to touch another woman. Our family is a very conservative catholic family. I feel that the relationship would be good, because I love her so much, and she cares for me so much too (nobody else because there is only two of us in the family left). My only guilt concerns morals, since I am not used to having another woman, especially a sibling. I am very confused and not one single woman ever attract me, even in the past, except my wife. Please advise me as I have both a heavy guilt in my conscience and a fantasy that seems reaching fulfillment.
Yes, there will absolutely still be damage, and consequences, no matter how you rationalize it. I don't really give advice, but m opinion is that you 2 have become co-dependent, which is never healthy. Instead, of feeding it, take the initiative and invite her to join a hobby club. Square dancing, aerobics, books, anywhere that you can each meet someone. Hope this helps.
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Thank you for your comments. There's only 2 of us in the family. We are both in our 40s. She is still single and my wife died 7 years ago. I have 2 sons but both have their own families. Do you think there would still be damage in the family if we keep it discreetly? If in the future she fully agrees (which I strongly believe she will) and begin a consensual sex with me, what do you think would be the consequences?
Since I became a widower, i have been living alone for years, and so is she for being single. She only has maids in the house and never go out with any men, not even once but only with me and her female friends sometimes.
That was the first time she was ever touched by a man, and my first time to touch another woman. Our family is a very conservative catholic family. I feel that the relationship would be good, because I love her so much, and she cares for me so much too (nobody else because there is only two of us in the family left). My only guilt concerns morals, since I am not used to having another woman, especially a sibling. I am very confused and not one single woman ever attract me, even in the past, except my wife. Please advise me as I have both a heavy guilt in my conscience and a fantasy that seems reaching fulfillment.
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Yes, there will absolutely still be damage, and consequences, no matter how you rationalize it. I don't really give advice, but m opinion is that you 2 have become co-dependent, which is never healthy. Instead, of feeding it, take the initiative and invite her to join a hobby club. Square dancing, aerobics, books, anywhere that you can each meet someone. Hope this helps.