Is it normal to have sex as a child?

Is it normal to have sexual intercourse and oral sex at age eleven? I had both, sexual intercouse with a girl a year or so older and oral sex with another boy who was a teenager. I realize some people would call this abuse but I'm not so sure, given that we were all still kids. Is this normal or no?

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68% Normal
Based on 37 votes (25 yes)
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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    sounds like your parents aren't doing a good job of keeping an eye on you

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  • chuy

    Innocent child experimentation ages infant to say 8ish, but I do think 11yr old is way to big for innocent experimantation you're to old to know better at that age,......exprementing yes innicent not so much.

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  • scradycat42

    It is ok just be sure they want sex with you.

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  • bleach_baby

    Kids experimenting with kids in a consenting manner is normal. It only becomes abnormal or exploitation when one party is significantly older (even a few years when you are young can be significant) or when one party has much more power over the other.

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  • Gelmurag

    Is it normal? People would like to believe it isn't. But it happens quite often. Sounds like no one forced you to do anything, and you didn't force anyone else to do anything so I don't really see it as a problem.

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  • swaggs

    I had sex with two neighbor daughters. They didn't know that they both were using my penis as pleasure for themselves. As in they werent aware both of them were sleeping with the same person. At age 7 i had boners and i would put it inside the neighbors daughters pussy. I was 7. one of them was 9 and the other 11 they taught me about sex and both slept with me until age 12 until they moved. But i slept with two other cousins at age 8 til 13 they both were the same age as me and we had sex and they knew about each other and we had sex all the time. we stopped at age 13 once we knew we couldn't keep this away from our family. now im 18 and it is very awkward to be in family events with any of them

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