Is it normal to have sex anxiety

You can't truly be "good" at sex with someone on the first try...anyone who says otherwise is a clueless douche. Once you learn the persons dislikes and likes...THEN you can make it amazing. No two people are the same in bed...so it's normal to be nervous until you figure them out. If it's the first time and you're nervous...try asking what they like or if it feels good. I have no problem voicing if they need to move to the left, harder, etc...it makes it enjoyable for both! If you are too shy for that then try to concentrate less on getting your rocks off and pay more attention to any little signals they may be giving. Good luck!

Unless you have a small penis or have reason to believe she has a really weird fetish, I don't see the problem.

its not normal if you are a guy you should want sex not be afraid of it

If you suck at one night stands, then maybe you shouldn't have them. Grow a pair and shake off the nerves. No pun intended.

I hate the thought of one-niht stands...I find them horrible. But yah this is normal, is fear of the unknown, so once you have done it you are more confident ince they haven't rejected you. I would say its normal.

You got "lucky" but you cannot honestly say that the sex didn't get better...plus you never know his true opinion of what you were like the first time...it could have been like f@cking a rubber boot. Then again, some don't know what truly amazing sex is. Oh, and I don't "do" guys lol!

Pretty normal, regardless of sexual experience. I've had about 10 sexual partners over the past 10 years and have had much more than my share of sex; with lots more to come. Performance anxiety can get to anyone under many circumstances, like speaking in front of an audience... sex is no different. My first time with many of these girls, I found it very hard to 'go' as I was too concentrated on making a good first impression.

My suggestion; focus your attention on your partner. Enjoy the look of their body and the feel of their skin and you'll find that things just roll.

Random is right, you'll never throw down your best game on the first go, but with practice your 'firsts' get better. Everyone likes different things and it's important to talk about that kind of stuff even if it seems embarrassing.

Can't say it's going to stop, but it's definitely normal and not a big deal in many cases.

Oh yeah man. I'm 20 and there's still times ya get hit with the nerves