Is it normal to have relations with your boss?

I'm a human sexuality educator.

In my most professional opinion, I think it depends on the perspective you're looking from when you ask, "Is this normal?" I would safely say for most men, this is not normal behavior. But if your boss has been suppressing sexual desires for men for some time, in a sense, it's normal for him to cross some of the lines of his professionalism. Even today, many men surpress there same-sex desires and "play it straight". I should mention that sexuality is not so black and white. He could be madly in love with his wife, and just curious. He could be bisexual. He could be gay and actually not his wife sexually, but just emotional. He could be initializing an affair with you. There's so many ways to look at the scenario from his perspective. That doesn't mean it's "right" from a bosses standpoint. But you did said you were close friends. So I could understand why those lines might have been crossed if he finds you sexually attractive.

It's just my opinion as an educator. I've heard many many more awkward scenarios from all kinds of people. But what I am curious about is *why* you're asking if this is "normal"? Are you considering his offer? Are you not sure what to do because he is a friend of yours? Are you concerned about his wife and family? I was hoping you could elaborate a bit more on this situation.

If you are not considering his offer, I would just be honest and gentle about it. You can't be too sure what's going through his head right now. If he's always had same-sex desires, if he only feels them for you. If this was just sort of a heat-of-the-moment type thing. (Which does happen.)

It's generally a bad idea to fool around with a friend. It's generally a very bad idea to fool around with a married man. It's also generally a very, very bad idea to fool around with your boss.

There's so much bad mojo here, this affair is either going to be the death of you or the most awesome experience of your life. Proceed with caution...

While at work today I let him do it. Don't know why I did. But it was amazing!

Lmfao watever floats his goat

it's normal for girls to fuck their bosses because they're... well girls. they want the easy and fast lane to money. so they'll take faking anything and everything to get it.

it's not normal for a guy to fuck their boss because if a girl is the boss then she's often a stuck-up bitch who's married in an abusive relationship and loves it.

as for gay? definitely not normal.

No yucky.

Homo post

That's so wrong! It'll ruin your marriage n his if it comes out. Tread cautiously my friend

i'm a bi dude and i was one my bosses executive assistants,he hated being lonely! he was 65 i was 18 and was too skinny had to gain 120 lbs he wanted me to be at least 280 lbs of soft blubber and wear mini skirts, so i did that and also paperwork, that somehow never got done, after 2 years it went belly up. my new boss was no fun she actually wanted me to work and i quit that job as soon as i found a ric chick to marry and divorced the cunt when i found she was broke, why is my life so hard?

Some people think that the straigth/gay line is a rigid frontier, because of our conservative and sexist social customs, which by their turn derivate from religious prejudice. That is in fact a fluid frontier, as attest the best poets (e.g. Sappho, Catullus, Shakespeare) and the natural sciences. I guess your boss would reach 1 or 2 in Kinsey scale. How about you?
I have a hunch that many guys have some kind of homossexual fantasy; your boss was simply explicit. Be cautious, though, if he wants to concretize his fantasy, sex with coworkers are a delicate issue, plus he's married...